This is where someone overcompensates for feeling very dependent and subconsciously goes in the opposing direction. They become extremely independent wanting no close connections with others.
I remember first encountering the term during my studies in Organizational Behavior a long time ago. Organizations and communities are filled with counterdependent attitudes and behavior; that is people who are still dependent and have no idea that they are.
What is the solution? Certainly greater self-awareness, and also "autonomous interdependence," where we are able to be who we are in peaceful coexistence with others.
Jack Ricchiuto has made several helpful insights on his blog about self-discovery and finding the path to greater personal meaning. Musing on his blog has reminded of the need for greater awareness of counterdependent behavior in the Greater Cleveland community.
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