Imagine yourself as constantly changing, like the water in the stream that you stepped in to get to one side and then stepped in again to get back to the side you left.

You are process; absent any fixed nature. Your personality is nothing more than a fleeting reflection that you see in the water's surface. Once you stop looking, the reflection and you disappear.

Don't fear your fleeting nature. Embrace it for that is who you are. By accepting your nature, you are free of all that holds you back from becoming who you really are.