Tuesday, November 09, 2004

My Father's Geography
By Afaa M. Weaver

I was parading the Côte d'Azur,
hopping the short trains from Nice to Cannes,
following the maze of streets in Monte Carlo
to the hill that overlooks the ville.
A woman fed me pâté in the afternoon,
calling from her stall to offer me more.
At breakfast I talked in French with an old man
about what he loved about America--the Kennedys.
On the beaches I walked and watched
topless women sunbathe and swim,
loving both home and being so far from it.
At a phone looking to Africa over the Mediterranean,
I called my father, and, missing me, he said,
"You almost home boy. Go on cross that sea!"
One more...

"Why love if losing hurts so much?
We love to know that we are not alone."

--C.S. Lewis
On second thought...

"Each friend represents a world in us,
a world possibly not born until they
arrive, and it is only by this meeting
that a new world is born."

--Anaïs Nin
Tuesday Thought: Compassion

"A human being is a part of the
whole called by us universe, a part
limited in time and space. He experiences
himself, his thoughts and feeling as
something separated from the rest, a
kind of optical delusion of his consciousness.
This delusion is a kind of prison for us,
restricting us to our personal desires and to
affection for a few persons nearest to us.
Our task must be to free ourselves from
this prison by widening our circle of
compassion to embrace all living creatures
and the whole of nature in its beauty."

--Albert Einstein

Monday, November 08, 2004

Looking back...

Sometimes I wonder if anybody cares about
the same things I care about. Blame it on my
nostalgic side, but for me it is important to
reflect on the past at times.

For example, click here and find out something
about our next door neighbors in Martins Ferry
in the 1950s.
The Road Not Taken
By Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that, the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
Put It All Together
By Don

Wisdom...
small doses,
Caring...
small cures,
Love...
small answers,
Put them together...
a life that truly matters.
Monday Thought: Wisdom

"Knowledge speaks, but wisdom
listens."

--Jimi Hendrix
On second thought...

"Our character is what we do
when we think no one is looking."

--Unknown
This one never gets old...

"God grant me the serenity to accept
the things I cannot change, courage
to change the things I can, and wisdom
to know the difference."

--The Serenity Prayer

I first encountered this prayer in 1969
when I graduated high school. A plaque
with this prayer was given to me by a
neighbor in St. Clairsville, Mrs. Styles, as a
graduation present.

At the time, I thought it was silly because
at 18 I was dead-set on changing the world.
The older I get, the more this small prayer
has come to mean to me.

Dear Mrs. Styles, Thank you from the
bottom of my heart.

Sunday, November 07, 2004

Autumn Poem
By Mary Oliver

In the last jovial, clear-sky days of autumn
the mockingbird
in his monk-gray coat
and his arrowy wings

flies
from the hedge to the top of the pine
and begins to sing — but it's neither loose, nor lilting, nor lovely —

it's more like whistles and truck brakes and dry hinges.
All birds are birds of heaven
but this one, especially, adores the earth so well
he would imitate, for half the day and on into the
evening,

its ticks and wheezings,
and so I have to wait a long time
for the soft, true voice
of his own glossy life

to come through,
and of course I do.
I don't know what it is that makes him, finally, look
inward

to the sweet spring of himself, that mirror of heaven,
but when it happens —
when he lifts his head
and the feathers of his throat tremble,

and he begins, like Saint Francis,
little flutterings and leapings from the pine's forelock,
resettling his strong feet each time among the branches,
I am recalled,

from so many wrong paths I can't count them,
simply to stand, and listen.
All my life I have lived in a kind of haste and darkness
of desire, ambition, accomplishment.

Now the bird is singing, but not anymore of this world.
And something inside myself is fluttering and leaping, is
trying

to type it down, in lumped-up language,
in outcry, in patience, in music, in a snow-white book.
Creativity...

"The creation of something
new is not accomplished by
the intellect but by the play
instinct acting from inner
necessity. The creative mind
plays with the objects it loves."

--Carl Jung
Sunday Thought: Wisdom

"Never mistake knowledge
for wisdom. One helps you
make a living, the other helps
you make a life."

--Sandra Carey
On second thought...

"Water is fluid, soft, and yielding.
But water will wear away rock,
which is rigid and cannot yield.
As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft,
and yielding will overcome
whatever is rigid and hard.
This is another paradox:
what is soft is strong."

--Lao-Tzu

Saturday, November 06, 2004

James Wright Festival, 2005

Is it on your schedule? It should be!

This is the 25th annual festival to celebrate the poetry of James Wright in Martins Ferry, Ohio, which is his hometown and mine, and my buddy Dan Shimp in Santa Fe, .

Check it out here.

Haiku Moment
By Don

Plunging deeper...
in the moment,
time stands still
On second thought...

"For a long time it had seemed to me
that life was about to begin--real life.
But there was always some obstacle in
the way, something to be gotten through
first, some unfinished business, time still
to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life
would begin. At last it dawned on me that
these obstacles were my life."

-- Alfred D. Souza
Saturday Thought: Seeking the Spiritual Fire

"Just as a candle cannot burn without fire,
men cannot live without a spiritual life."

-- Buddha

Friday, November 05, 2004

Road Poem
By Don

Braving the highways of life,
Six AM,
Numbing radio talk...
just idle chatter,
I-80 eastbound...
Mercer just behind me
Clarion just ahead,
So many 18-wheelers
this rainy Thursday morning,
Memories of old times
in Martins Ferry...
drift by like butterflies in clouds,
Dreary morning...
thinking alone,
before my coffee.
Friday Thought: Vision

"Your vision will become clear
only when you look into your
heart. Who looks outside,
dreams. Who looks inside,
awakens."

--Carl Jung
On second thought...

"When you argue with reality,
you lose - but only 100% of
the time."

--Byron Katie

Thursday, November 04, 2004

On second thought...

"Reality in our century is not
something to be faced."

--Graham Greene
Thursday Thought: Happiness in Life

"You will never be happy if you continue
to search for what happiness consists of.
You will never live if you are looking for
the meaning of life."

--Albert Camus


Wednesday, November 03, 2004

On second thought...

Believe nothing just because a so-called
wise person said it. Believe nothing just
because a belief is generally held. Believe
nothing just because it is said in ancient
books. Believe nothing just because it
is said to be of divine origin. Believe
nothing just because someone else
believes it. Believe only what you
yourself test and judge to be true.
[paraphrased]

--Buddha
Wednesday Thought: Belief

"There are two ways to slide easily
through life: to believe everything or
to doubt everything; both ways save
us from thinking."

--Alfred Korzybski

Tuesday, November 02, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Lingering clouds...
...lazy morning
...raindrops beat softly
Haiku Moment
By Don

Truth needs...
...no window shades
...or dressings
Haiku Moment
By Don

Insignificant mole hills...
...seeking to become
...stupendous mountains
On second thought...

"Be who you are and say what
you feel because those who mind
don't matter and those who matter
don't mind."

--Dr. Seuss
Tuesday Thought: Being You

"Always be a first-rate version of
yourself, instead of a second-rate
version of somebody else.

--Judy Garland

Monday, November 01, 2004

Monday Thought: Honesty

"Don't ask me what I think of you,
I might not give the answer that
you want me to."

--Fleetwood Mac, Oh Well
On second thought...

"All lies and jest, still, a man
hears what he wants to hear
and disregards the rest."

-- Simon and Garfunkel, The Boxer

Sunday, October 31, 2004

Oneness
By Don

One we seek,
One we never know,
One we hope for,
One is how we really are.
~ The Invitation ~
By Oriah Mountain Dreamer

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for,
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love,
for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.
I want to know if you have touched the center of your sorrow.
If you have been opened by life's betrayals,
or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own,
without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own.
If you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you
to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic,
or to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself,
if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own self.

I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty everyday,
and if you can source your life from God's presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine,
and still stand on the edge of a lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"

It doesn't interest me where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after a night of grief and despair,
weary and bruised to the bone,
and do what needs to be done for the children.

It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself,
and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
On second thought...

Sann-ya-sin

"One who . . is dedicated to the life of spiritual growth and values, and to their teaching to others." Source: "Serving Humanity", Alice Bailey

"A Sannyasin cannot belong to any religion, for his is a life of independent thought, which draws from all religions; his is a life of realisation, not merely of theory or belief, much less of dogma".
Source: Swami Vivekananda
Sunday Thought: Change

"The art of progress is to preserve
order amid change and to preserve
change amid order."

--Alfred North Whitehead

Saturday, October 30, 2004

Real Learning
By Don

Sharing
learning moments together,
Connecting
across boundaries,
Making
new connections,
Creating
new openings,
Challenging
what we know,
Discovering
what we believe,
Letting go
of parts of ourselves no longer needed.
Haiku Moment
By Don

Autumn morning,
ripe berry-filled tree,
scores of robins feasting
Haiku Moment
By Don

Choose life
choose love
choose the real you
On second thought...

"When you choose to
see yourself as incompetent,
you create experiences of
incompetence.

Focusing on what you cannot
do instead of what you can do
creates a picture of yourself
that is narrow and incomplete."

--Mind of the Soul, by Gary
Zukav and Linda Francis
Saturday Thought: New Take on Work

"Personally, I have nothing against work,
particularly when performed, quietly and
unobtrusively, by someone else. I just
don't happen to think it's an appropriate
subject for an "ethic."

--Barbara Ehrenreich

Friday, October 29, 2004

On second thought...

"Choice equals creation. Each choice
you make creates experiences for
you and others. Your experiences
are dramatically and intimately
connected to your choices. In fact,
the way you perceive yourself is
a choice."

--Mind of the Soul, by Gary Zukav
and Linda Francis
Friday Thought: Linking to the Future

"In every conceivable manner, the
family is link to our past, bridge to
our future."

--Alex Haley

Thursday, October 28, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

All really good questions
outlive any answer
we can provide
Haiku Moment
By Don

Grasp the question
that stirs the heart
and escapes the mind
On second thought...

"Lying is done with words
and also with silence."

--Adrienne Rich
Thursday Thought: Love

"I hold it true,
whate'er befall;
I feel it,
when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."

--Alford Lord Tennyson


Wednesday, October 27, 2004

Wednesday Thought: Politics

"Politics is not the art of the possible.
It consists in choosing between the
disastrous and the unpalatable."

--John Kenneth Galbraith
On second thought...

"October is a symphony of permanence
and change."

--Bonaro W. Overstreet

Tuesday, October 26, 2004

On second thought...

"Study nature, love nature,
stay close to nature.
It will never fail you."

--Frank Lloyd Wright
Tuesday Thought: Nature's Inspiration

"The richness I achieve comes from
Nature, the source of my inspiration."

--Claude Monet

Monday, October 25, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Wishing
there was
more than there is


On second thought...

"Self-respect is a question of
recognizing that anything worth
having has a price."

--Joan Didion
Monday Thought: Happiness

"You will never be happy if you
continue to search for what happiness
consists of. You will never live if you
are looking for the meaning of life."

--Albert Camus

Now that is one I need to remember!

Sunday, October 24, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Tiny specks of gold,
mining the truth,
bit by bit within
Haiku Moment
By Don

Lessons abound,
teachers everywhere,
open yourself
On second thought...

"If we could see the miracle
of a single flower clearly, our
whole life would change."

--Buddha
Sunday Thought: Cats

No not the play, the frisky,
cagey animal.

"There are no ordinary cats."

--Colette

Saturday, October 23, 2004

By Our Presence Alone
By Don

Inspire me,
don't lead me,
show me by example,
don't tell me,
let me hear you laugh,
let me see you cry,
let me hear your questions,
not the answers you find,
give me room to grow,
in the sunlight outside your shadow,
reassure me with your presence,
not your intervening thoughts or actions,
just be there and be who you are,
then I can find myself.
Haiku Moment
By Don

Listen
past yourself,
the winds of change summon
Haiku Moment
By Don

You are
who you are,
not who you think you are
On second thought...

Leadership: "It's hard to lead a cavalry
charge if you think you look funny on
a horse."

--Adlai Steveson
Saturday Thought: Identity

"It doesn't matter who my
father was; it matters who
I remember he was."

--Anne Sexton

Friday, October 22, 2004

On second thought...

"You know what they say:
if God had been a Liberal, we
wouldn't have had the ten
commandments. We'd have
had the ten suggestions."

--Christopher Bigsby
and Malcolm Bradbury
Friday Thought: Conservatives

"Conservative: a statesman who is
enamoured of existing evils, as distinguished
from the Liberal, who wishes to replace them
with others."

--Ambrose Bierce

Thursday, October 21, 2004

Inside You
By Don

Boundless beauty,
honesty to the bone,
ageless truth,
wisdom untold,
unending love,
your heart.
On second thought...

"Character cannot be developed
in ease and quiet. Only through
experience of trial and suffering
can the soul be strengthened,
vision cleared, ambition inspired,
and success achieved."

--Helen Keller
Thursday Thought: Character

"The best index to a person's
character is (a) how he treats
people who can't do him any
good, and (b) how he treats
people who can't fight back."

--Abigail Van Buren

Wednesday, October 20, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Appreciate,
share,
don't accumulate
Haiku Moment
By Don

Stand tall,
look in the mirror,
believe in yourself

Wednesday Thought: Poetry and Life

"There is poetry as soon as we realize
that we possess nothing."

--John Cage
On second thought...

"Life is the art of drawing without
an eraser."

John W. Gardner

Tuesday, October 19, 2004

On Friendship
By Don

Friends are wonderful living reminders,
they help us take off our blinders,
they fill us with good cheer,
and tell us not to fear.

Friends wake us when up we're sleeping,
they keep our love from seeping,
they show us the way when we are lost,
and give us their love at no cost.

Friends sit by our side when we're sick,
never a fight do they pick,
they tell us the things we need to hear,
even when we don't want to look in the mirror.
On second thought...

"Fear is not the natural state
of civilized people."

--Aung San Suu Kyi
Tuesday Thought: Beautiful Solutions

"When I am working on a problem I
never think about beauty. I only think
about how to solve the problem. But
when I have finished, if the solution is
not beautiful, I know it is wrong.

--Buckminster Fuller

Monday, October 18, 2004

On second thought...

"One who asks a question is a fool
for five minutes; one who does not
ask a question remains a fool forever."

--Chinese Proverb
Monday Thought: Einstein the Buddhist

"A human being is a part of the whole
called by us universe, a part limited in
time and space. He experiences himself,
his thoughts and feeling as something
separated from the rest, a kind of optical
delusion of his consciousness. This delusion
is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to
our personal desires and to affection for
a few persons nearest to us. Our task
must be to free ourselves from this prison
by widening our circle of compassion to
embrace all living creatures and the whole
of nature in its beauty."

--Albert Einstein
Haiku Moment
By Don

Meaningful work,
work we love,
not necessarily work that pays
Haiku Moment
By Don

Jobs available,
jobs we want,
a gulf between the two

Sunday, October 17, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Arizona sunset,
autumn colors fly,
letting go of what holds us back
Haiku Moment
By Don

Lurking hawk,
small birds scatter,
our daily fears in life
On second thought ...

"We don't see things as they are,
we see them as we are."

--Anaïs Nin
Sunday Thought: Autumn

"Autumn is a second spring
when every leaf is a flower."

--Albert Camus

Saturday, October 16, 2004

Late Night Autumn Muses
By Don

Distant voices,
inside,
touch us
with the muffled silence
of the night.

Autumn leaves
whisper change,
giving birth to
new dreams
we must follow.

Voices,
whispers,
silence,
dreams,
everything changes.
Haiku Moment
By Don

Lonesome dove,
worn out traveler,
the path takes it toll

On second thought...

"I believe that we are solely responsible
for our choices, and we have to accept
the consequences of every deed, word,
and thought throughout our lifetime."

--Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
Saturday Thought: Love as a Choice

"Love is a choice you make from moment
to moment."

--Barbara De Angelis

Friday, October 15, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Towering buildings,
busy streets,
not necessarily a city
Haiku Moment
By Don

Red, yellow, and golden leaves
cornstalks, pumpkins, and gourds,
images of autumn's ascent

On second thought...

"The thing always happens that you
really believe in; and the belief in a thing
makes it happen."

--Frank Lloyd Wright
Friday Thought: How to Have an Impact

"To put the world right in order, we must
first put the nation in order; to put the nation
in order, we must first put the family in order;
to put the family in order, we must first cultivate
our personal life; we must first set our hearts right."

--Confucious

Thursday, October 14, 2004

Autumn Day in Cleveland
By Don

Noisy rambunctious bluejay,
bouncing frantically limb to limb,
golden sunlight streaks through treetops,
warming my inquisitive face
pressed against the window,
a single red maple leaf lets go
of her need to hold on,
Autumn day in Cleveland,
happiness is comfortably within reach today.
On second thought...

There are some things
in life that just don't mix.

"Never hold a dust buster
and a cat at the same time."

--Kyoya, 9 Advice from Kids
Thursday Thought: Simple Pleasures

We always seem to think we need so
much in life to be happy. Not so. Take
a cat for example:

"No one can have experienced to the
fullest the true sense of achievement
and satisfaction who have never pursued
and successfully caught his tail."

--Rosalind Welcher

Wednesday, October 13, 2004

Shadow Truths
By Don

In ancient shadows find,
the sacred and sublime,
where darkness reveals the light,
the heart sees with perfect sight,
without the one, there is no other,
seek the truth without cover,
walk the path where shadows fall,
learn to walk it very tall,
the shadows tell what sun light hides,
for there too truth abides.

Haiku Moment
By Don

Truth,
walking a noble path,
one cleared by a happy heart
Wednesday Thought: Health Tip

"The secret of health for both mind
and body is not to mourn for the past,
worry about the future, or anticipate
troubles but to live in the present
moment wisely and earnestly."

--Buddha
On second thought...

"The defining function of the artist is
to cherish consciousness."

--Max Eastman

Tuesday, October 12, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Plunging the depths,
seeking answers,
finding the right question
On second thought...

"The arts are an even better barometer
of what is happening in our world than
the stock market or the debates in
Congress."

--Hendrik Willem Van Loon
Tuesday Thought: Dreams

"All men who have achieved great
things have been great dreamers."

--Orison Swett Marden

Monday, October 11, 2004

Haiku Moment
By Don

Swan-like grace,
dancing on tip toes,
summer gives way to fall
Haiku Moment
By Don

River of passion,
freely flowing,
wildly engulfing all I am
Haiku Moment
By Don

Soft, supple,
willing, eager,
life in the moment
On second thought...

"The universal brotherhood of
man is our most precious possession."

--Mark Twain
Monday Thought: Good People

"Good people are good because
they've come to wisdom through failure."

--William Saroyan

Sunday, October 10, 2004

Being in the Night
By Don

Soft, gentle breeze,
faint Autumn scents,
quiet late night moment,
awaiting the rising sun.

Silver moon sliver,
dangles from the sky,
twinkle stars delight,
lonesome crickets cry.

Somehow,
always we are here,
never late for today,
sitting on life's front porch step.
Haiku Moment
By Don

Empty within,
but never without,
opening to the moment
Haiku Moment
By Don

Without,
we find truth,
in the absence of having
On second thought...

"Character is like a tree
and reputation like its shadow.
The shadow is what we think
of it; the tree is the real thing."

--Abraham Lincoln
Sunday Thought: Forgive Your Enemies

"Always forgive your enemies;
nothing annoys them so much."

--Oscar Wilde
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